Have you ever want to turn back the time?

Wow it's been almost 5 years since I wrote post in this blog, time flies indeed.

So well, there are tons of things happened : I got a job as a civil servant! And I got placed in my hometown so I could be back for good, I got new nephews, and... I got married! It has already been two years actually. Like, wow! right? My past self who wrote a lot in this blog won't even imagine I could be a stable state of mind (lol this blog used to be my sanctuary, thanks to it I didn't need to see a psychologists in my younger years).

Growing

People always tell us to get out of our comfort zone and develop ourselves.

But I've learned, that challenging yourself doesn't always mean torturing yourself.
It's okay to walk one baby step at a time.
Developing ourselves, while maintaining our mental health.

Knowing the difference between environment that helps us grow, and one that makes us dead inside.

We'll get there eventually.

from @chibirdart

What should be done?

I'm coming back to blogger lyfe bcos apparently I need somewhere to vent out and it seems like I can't find anyone to be my thought's trash bin, hehe...

So I have this thought: I came to realisation that we need more than just love to make a relationship work: communication, compromise, the understanding that both parties need to make it work, etc. But the question is; how do we know that; "Oh it's the right time, the right person, to start to work on it."?
Or it's actually something that you find out, while trying?